Are Psychics for real?

The question of the reality of spirits and psychic ability is a good one. Psychics deliver comfort and hope to a lot of grieving people that their loved ones are safe and sound living on the “other side”. There are genuine times when watching psychics perform when you really feel a sense of bewilderment as to how they could know such intricate details about a person they have never met. Is psychic ability genuine? Can humans really connect with people who have died? To some, the belief that their loved ones are ok in another life is enough to put them at ease and to carry on with their life; if you are one of those people then perhaps deep investigation into physic ability is not for you. But I have a sinking suspicion that most people are genuinely interested in the truth, even if it takes away that security blanket so many hold dear. There is nothing wrong with having hope that we will see our loved ones again, but we should not let hope blind us from deciphering false hope from truth.

Psychic ability is an area where I have done a fair bit of investigation on and would be delighted to share with you what I’ve discovered. Unfortunately if you were looking for conformation or a sense of comfort about life after death I wouldn’t point you in the direction of a psychic. For a long time I was convinced about spirits through an experience I had with an Ouija board. The cup was moving ferociously across the table spelling all sorts of weird words and names. I had barley a finger tip on the glass and I could clearly see my girlfriend at the time also barely touching the glass. This experience led me to believe that there was indeed a “spiritual dimension.” When we have an experience that we cannot explain we tend to latch on to the explanation that is given to us at the time. Once we attach ourselves to a belief it’s very hard for us to let go. It wasn’t until I began looking for other explanations that I found them. Here is a good explanation for how an Ouija board works:

http://www.straightdope.com/columns/read/1798/how-does-a-ouija-board-work

As for Psychics, there is a man named Derren Brown. Some of you may have heard of him. He is an illusionist, mentalist and sceptic. His videos are amazing; if you haven’t seen them already I highly recommend them, very entertaining! The reason I’m bringing up his name is because he did a documentary on how easy it is to convince people you are psychic and have special powers. You can watch the documentary for free on YouTube. Here is the first part, keeping in mind Derren does not believe in the super natural nor does he claim to have any special powers:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kJ02I6QyagM

Here is another great video Derren does on spirits:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDXQTBUCpYw

After watching these videos I simply could not accept psychics as a valid form of contact to those who are deceased. If a man who claims to have no special powers and attributes Psychic ability to a series of linguist tricks and then goes on to prove this by performing this in front of a live audience. I find little reason to continue to justify psychic ability within my belief system. As much as I would love to believe that when I die I will still get to be with my family, I think the evidence for it is very bleak to nil. Now I am not a materialist by a long shot, there is so much mystery to this world that we don’t understand. I would love to find evidence that led me to hold to the belief that I will see my friends and family again. But ultimately I don’t know, and false hope is not something I’m interested in. I personally would much rather know the truth and live my life according to it.

If anyone is looking for something to comfort them about death I would highly recommend anything by John Shelby Spong or Deepak Chopra. They both have very comforting insightful views and ideas about the afterlife.

Jason

The End of Faith

Book: The End of Faith
Author: Sam Harris

Sam Harris is one of my all time favourite authors/speaker/thinkers. I think I’ve seen every debate he’s ever been in and every time I do I’m blown away by his intelligence and his intellectual integrity. I was very impressed after reading his other book “Letter to a Christian nation” and the end of faith has been on my must read list for quite some time. I like Sam’s work so much I was willing to buy this book instead of my usual poor man’s trip down to the library, although this act didn’t come without a price.

The first time I bought this book, I was planning to read it on my long plane journey to America, which unsurprisingly I did very little as I was distracted by the on flight entertainment system (mainly Tetris). While I was in my hotel room, I happened to leave the book on the bench in what I thought was a very safe (yet oddly placed) plastic container. As it turns out this was a recycling bin and the maid, bless her little heart, thought it right to throw away this perfectly new looking book.

It took me a while, but I finally built up the courage and self esteem to bring myself to spend another twenty or so dollars for another copy of the book. This time I took the book with me to a wedding in Greece. Again very little of the book did I actually read on the plane (dam you Tetris!) and as I was about to step foot off the plane I suddenly realised I had left the book tucked away in my seat pocket. So I barged my way through the oncoming traffic of people and was lucky to retrieve the book that I’ve had to buy twice now. It would seem that the powers that be did not want me reading this book, BUT besides the obvious signs from God, I read it anyway. I’m thankful to say I haven’t been scorched in a freak lighting storm... yet!

The title of the book comes across quite aggressive, “the end of faith”, and If me being quite a liberal open minded guy when it comes to faith and spirituality found it so, I can only imagine how those who hold some sort of religious faith might feel about it. I imagine this title would turn them away immediately, which is a shame because this book makes a lot of good points aimed directly at people who hold strong religious convictions. If the only people reading this book are atheists, agnostics and men and woman of the secular persuasion, then I think a lot of what Sam has to say in this book goes to waste.

The first two chapters of the book were so far in my short journey of intellectual pursuits, the best two chapters I have ever read about understanding the concept of belief, what beliefs are and why we believe certain things. This is probably aided by the fact Sam has a Ph.D. in neuroscience. The way in which Sam explores belief, religious belief especially, and lays it out on the table seems both wonderfully insightful and painfully obvious:

“It is time we recognized that belief is not a private matter; it has never been merely private. In fact, beliefs are scarcely more private than actions are, for every belief is a fount of action in potentia. The belief that it will rain puts an umbrella in the hand of every man or woman who owns one. It should be easy enough to see that belief in the full efficacy of prayer, for instance, becomes an emphatically public concern the moment it is actually put into practice: the moment a surgeon lays aside his worldly instruments and attempts to suture his patients with prayer, or a pilot tries to land a passenger jet with nothing but repetitions of the word “Hallelujah” applied to the controls, we are swiftly delivered from the provinces of private faith to those of a criminal court.

As a man believes, so he will act. Believe that you are the member of a chosen people, awash in the salacious exports of an evil culture that is turning your children away from God, believe that you will be rewarded with an eternity of unimaginable delights by dealing death to the infidels - and flying a plane into a building is scarcely more than a matter of being asked to do it. It follows, then, that certain beliefs are intrinsically dangerous. We all know that human beings are capable of incredible brutality, but we would do well to ask, what sort of ideology will make us most capable of it?...”

Sam argues in the book that the we need new rules of conversation when talking to those who are convinced by things through unjustified beliefs, or “faith”. He uses Islamic fundamentalism to back up his arguments. The rise in Islamic fundamentalism is one that has affected the entire world. For those of us in the west, no longer is it something we can just pass off as something happening far away and not worry about it, but over the past couple of years as we’ve seen on our televisions and our newspapers is something that is beginning to trespass ever more dangerously in our lives. Sam attacks not only fundamentalist’s beliefs in his book, but religious moderates as well:

“Of course, people of faith fall on a continuum: some draw solace and inspiration from a specific spiritual tradition, and yet remain fully committed to tolerance and diversity, while others would burn the earth to cinders if it would put an end to heresy. There are, in other words, religious moderates and religious extremists, and their various passions and projects should not be confused. One of the central themes of this book, however, is that religious moderates are themselves the bearers of a terrible dogma: they imagine that the path to peace will be paved once each of us has learned to respect the unjustified beliefs of others. I hope to show that the very ideal of religious tolerance born of the notion that every human being should be free to believe whatever he wants about God is one of the principal forces driving us toward the abyss.”

I understand exactly where he is coming from and agree with him to an extent, but when I think about the idea of crushing religious moderates, I think of all my dearest and closest friends who hold to a religious belief, the kind of people that wouldn’t hurt a fly. I think of all the honest and sincere people of the world that are inspired to do good through their personal faith and religious beliefs. I am currently at a deep conflict within myself when it comes to “fighting” religion. Yes we can all agree that fundamentalism is a genuine threat and problem to our society and to the freedom of the standard of life we love so much. We should oppose this kind of black and white thinking with everything we’ve got. But do religious moderates really fuel this fundamentalism? Don’t they oppose fundamentalism just as much as those who oppose religion entirely. Should something that inspires someone to become a better person and build greater feelings of love and tolerance towards fellow human beings really be thrown in the garbage heap with radical fundamentalism? Isn’t that common ground that believers and non believers such as myself can come too?

The final chapter of the book and the epilogue were by far my favourite. Sam unlike a lot of outspoken atheist or agnostics is not afraid to explore spirituality and take ever so careful steps into trying to understand the mystical and spiritual experiences that so many have. In his last chapter of the book Sam explores meditation and the value of spiritual experience, although he tries so very hard not to use the word spiritual, instead opting for a much more liberal term “mysticism”. I really enjoyed this book and I recommend it to everyone, instead of explaining my conclusion of the book I will simply share the last paragraph of Sam’s epilogue with you, I think it sums up the book wonderfully and if any one wishes to know more they need only to read the book.

"...Man is manifestly not the measure of all things. This universe is shot through with mystery. The very fact of its being, and of our own, is a mystery absolute, and the only miracle worthy of the name. The consciousness that animates us is itself central to this mystery and the ground for any experience we might wish to call - spiritual. No myths need be embraced for us to commune with the profundity of our circumstance. No personal God need be worshiped for us to live in awe at the beauty and immensity of creation. No tribal fictions need be rehearsed for us to realize, one fine day, that we do, in fact, love our neighbours, that our happiness is inextricable from their own, and that our interdependence demands that people everywhere be given the opportunity to flourish. The days of our religious identities are clearly numbered. Whether the days of civilization itself are numbered would seem to depend, rather too much, on how soon we realize this.”

The Value of Vertigo

http://skepticblog.org/2010/08/03/the-value-of-vertigo/

Great post By Daniel Loxton from Skepticblog about understanding that vertiginous "what if?” feeling when analysing unreasonable claims.

Debate: Does God have a future?

Sam Harris and Michael shermer debate with Deepak Chopra and Jean Huston in a discussion about the future of God. The reason this debate is so interesting is because it’s not a traditionalists view of God there debating, but a sort of new age mystic view of God. I’m very familiar with Michael and Sam‘s work and I have heard a little about Deepak Chopra and have watched a few of his videos. I thought it was a great debate and I’ll let you decide for yourself who you think had the strongest arguments. For me I think it was pretty clear that Sam and Michael had the upper hand.

Quote: Buddha

"Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.

Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumoured by many.

Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.

Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.

Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.

But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it." -Buddha

Why I hate labels

If there is one thing that gets on my nerves when talking about ideas and concepts in any situation, it is our desire to label everything. Don’t get me wrong. I understand the need for labels in order for identification purposes and as a tool for building our language and understanding. But the kind of labelling I’m referring to is the labels we give each other. We all have different ideas and opinions on any number of issues and by the basis of our ideas we will fall into a category, from our beliefs about religion and politics to our ideas on philosophy and life.

But the problem with labels is it gives us a means to immediately dismiss someone’s ideas without even listening to them. If you start a sentence with “I disagree with capitalism”, than you must be a communist! If you start a conversation with “I don’t believe in the bible” your an Atheist! As soon as we hear the words come out of someone’s mouth our brain immediately tries to fit the person in a preconceived label we already have. If we have a negative view of that position our brain tends to shut off from listening to this person because we think we’ve already got them figured out. We all do it! If someone has good ideas; regardless of “who they are” we should listen to them. We should listen to people and agree or disagree on the basis of WHAT they are saying, not WHO is saying it. I don’t care if your an atheist, Christian, socialist, agnostic, liberal, Muslim, Hindu, nihilist, materialist, communist, Buddhist, deist, scientologist, spiritualist or just a plain old existentialist. If you have good ideas I want to hear them!

Sure we need labels for means of identifying things in our society and for the purposes of engaging in meaningful conversations. But we should never use labels against each other. At the end of the day labels are only disguises of who we really are. Were not “conservatives” or “liberals” were not “communists” or “capitalists” were not even “Christians” or “atheists”. If we break things down we are all breathing, talking, feeling human beings. Don’t let something as trivial and meaningless as a label get in the way of connecting with other people. Next time you’re in a conflicting conversation with someone try to remember your talking to a person. Not a label.

Life after death

My View on Life after Death,


Since I’ve finished reading, eternal life: A new vision by John Shelby Spong. The thought of life after death has been on my mind a bit. So I thought I would post a few of my current thoughts about it.

Since reading the book my thoughts about life after death haven’t really changed all that much. I still don’t know and most probably never will until the day I die. I was however delighted to read that John Shelby Spong does. He was as I’ve mentioned in my review, a little unclear on WHY and WHAT he believes there is, but I’m happy he does and I know that will give a lot of people hope.

I really do understand the reasons and the hope that believing in life after death brings. I know because I used to believe it! I used to believe as a christian, that as long as I accepted Jesus as my lord and saviour, and lived according to his words I would be ‘saved’ and granted eternal life in heaven. MANY people still believe this, and I have no desire to take away anyone’s hopes because I know how much that belief meant to me at the time. When you completely give yourself over to the idea that you will live on after death and really believe it, (regardless of how you arrive at that belief). There is a sense of calm that is bestowed upon you. However I think the reason we cling so closely to the idea that we will live on through death, is because of our fear of death and the pain of losing loved ones. Let’s face it; death is a pretty scary thought! Does it hurt? What does it feel like? What happens? There are so many questions.

Another reason so many fear death, is because of the religiously programmed idea of hell and punishment. Our natural fear or death coupled with religious ideas of hell and punishment can have devastating effects on people:

(http://www.thebeautifulheresy.com/2006/04/my-story.html)


To me the notion of heaven and hell, reward and punishment is just too conveniently manufactured too suit those with authority and power. "Work for us, behave, do what we say and you’ll go to heaven, if you don’t do what we say, you’ll be tortured in hell forever" Fear is one of the best tools for controlling the masses and no one does it better than organised religion.

But death only becomes scary when we look at it through a lens of fear. I’ve discovered that you don’t need to put all your faith and hope into a religious idea to free yourself from the fear of death. When you take a deep breath, accept that one day you will die, that death is a part of the great cycle which is life and that no one knows what awaits us after we die. I think we put ourselves in a far better position to face death.

In some ways I still hope there is life after death. I hope if there is that I’m going there! Because that means ill get another chance to be with my family and friends and if God is there I can only imagine the conversations we will have. But am I going to build my life around this fantasy? No, because I understand there is absolutely no evidence for it. I accept this as my hope and my hope alone. I tend to keep this hope at the back of my mind because to me what is more important than what could or could not be in the next life, is the life I know I have right now! I would much rather spend my time enjoying this life and thinking of ways to make this life even more enjoyable for others and our future generations. I actually think an absolute belief in the afterlife takes away a lot of the meaning this life has. If our sole purpose for this life is to make it to the next one, well than what the heck is the point of this one!

Another issue I have about the afterlife is the eternal aspect. I mean the initial thought is nice, but when you really think about it. Do we really want to live forever? I mean... forever!!! Not like 10 billion years, or even:

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But FOREVER!

Once you had experienced all there was to experience what would you do? What would happen to creativity or the excitement of experiencing something NEW? What would you do after you had every conversation there was to have, seen all the sights there were to see, answered all the questions to be asked and felt all the emotions to be felt an infinite amount of times over. Wouldn’t this get horrifically tedious? Another issue I have is the concept of no sin, pain or suffering in the afterlife. Either we exist in the afterlife as robots unable to do wrong, or we are given free will mixed with eternity. Do the math!

Humans + free will + eternity = CATASTROPHE!

Is no life after death really something to be afraid of? I don’t think so. In the infinite amount of time before any of us were born, before our bodies and our brains were formed in our mother’s womb, we did not exist. We were officially “experiencing” no life before life. Is it safe to assume this state of non existence continues after our brains have stopped functioning and our bodies have decomposed? I think it’s very possible. Does anyone remember any sense of pain or suffering? Does anyone remember being in distress or any uncomfortable state what’s so ever? I don’t. This isn’t to say this is definitely what happens after we die. I honestly don’t know! But I personally give this outcome the highest score of plausibility. And I’m ok with that : )

People might say “well if there is just nothingness, what’s the point?” Maybe the point to life isn’t about a selfish struggle to try and gain eternal life, maybe the point to life is to live in the NOW and experience all that we can with the time we have, maybe the point to life is to pass on all that we have learned to our children so that they can do the same and continue the beautiful cycle that is life!

So for the time being I’m quite happy to just sit back and enjoy the ride and make the most of this life. If there is an afterlife I’m very curious and look forward to it, if there isn’t, well than I’m thankful for the time I’ve had. : )

Either way I guess we all have to wait to find out right?